Love Will Tear Us Apart: “Neither One Of Us (Wants To Be The First To Say Goodbye)” by Gladys Knight And The Pips
This cuts deeper than “Hurting Each Other” because its story
of a loveless sham of a relationship bore a very palpable subtext. “Neither One
Of Us” was Gladys and the Pips’ penultimate single, and last big hit, on
Motown, and it is hard to listen to Knight’s woe without thinking about Berry
Gordy. On the label – or at least its “Soul” subsidiary – for some
six-and-a-half years, Knight was bored and angry at being a very distant second
to Diana Ross in the female singer pecking order and of her group being tossed
the leftovers that the Temptations or Jacksons didn’t or wouldn’t want.
Knight invests the song – written by the Nashville-trained
Jim Weatherly, with help from Michael Omartian and our old friend from the
sixties, Artie Butler – with the right quantity of suppressed pain,
concentrating all the hurt in her ululant punctuations, in combination with the
increasingly raging despondency of her two “Every time I find the nerve”s and
the prematurely exhausted frustration of her “those old memories,” not to
mention the moment when she bursts out of her reluctant shell – the double “There
can be no way” balanced out by the “no, no.” Meanwhile the Pips, as ever,
provide the most droll and deadpan Greek chorus of a backing vocal.
Finally, after one climactic whoop, where Knight sounds like
she’s swallowed her Adam’s apple as decisively and irreversibly as John Cazale’s
Fredo does when Michael asks him if he knows anything more about those Senate
hearings, knowing that his answer will condemn him to death, she sounds
released – free, and the words “farewell” and “goodbye” just come out, as they
had always been waiting to do. The group, and Weatherly, went to Buddah
Records, and later that year, their second Buddah single, “Midnight Train To
Georgia,” a rebirth as momentous as New Order’s “Ceremony,” went to number one.
For a response – if you can bear it – look to Marvin Gaye’s “Just To Keep You
Satisfied,” the quietly apocalyptic coda to Let’s
Get It On.
Date Record Made
Number Two: 7 April 1973
Number Of Weeks At
Number Two: 2
Record At Number One: “The
Night The Lights Went Out In Georgia” by Vicki Lawrence
UK Chart Position: 31
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